Wednesday, December 31, 2008

5 New Year resolutions we love to make and break!


1. I will exercise and shed weight!

2. I will quit smoking and drinking!

3. I will be organized, I will stick to a schedule!

4. I will enjoy life and spend more time with family and friends!

5. I will not break my resolutions!!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2009! May this year bring you good luck in all your endeavours. Wish the best for you and for the world!

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

A visit to Chandigarh's outskirts- Yes! I brought cheer on a poor kids face.

The "Ghaggar river" has been a boon and bane for the city residents. Boon as it provides water, provides a room for submersion of idols, performance of religious rituals, last rites, washermans den, living to the rural people and agricultural productivity. Bane as the over-bridge has been the breeding ground for traffic and accidents. I have never heard of anyone drowning in the river or the occurrence of floods though.

My visit to the river was brief. A beautiful damaged idol of Lord Ganesha, an Indian Diety, that had been had been lying in the rare of my car for a couple of weeks was to be submerged in water and it was high time I went there.

My tyrst with the poor
Anywayz, I zoomed across the over-bridge and went towards the river through a rocky man-made path on a rickety two-wheeler. I got down with the Ganesh idol to submerge it in the flowing water. There were a couple of families that had come for obvious reasons and a few kids who lived beside the river in tents asked me if they can do my bit of work. After some apprehensions, I agreed. "I would send it for the first time and then they can pick it up and go in later." This was the consensus and we did so.

The children were there to make some money from people who come there. Had it been something of value to them, they would have picked it up and taken it home. But then, I pitied them and asked the small child not to go so deep. He came back safely and two of his friends joined in.

After I saw the Ganesh Idol safely float across and disappear, I asked the children about the class they studied in. As expected, they replied in negative, "we dont study." I dont know why, was it the lack of time or what, I dint care to ask them, 'WHY' and moved on. I put my hand in my pocket and the child asked me for money. After some fishing I made the 3 of them happy by giving them some currency notes. "Wow, mast hai..sahi hai..." were the screams of glee. It seemed as if I was their first catch for the day. The child then ran in joy across the shore and got on to his cycle with excitement and said, "Bjaiya dekho, main cycle chala sakta hoon" (See, I can ride a bicycle). I smiled at him and told him to ride. The other guy too chipped in and said he could drive. I gave them a mechanical praise. The third child ran across and sent the word to his friends. I asked them where the money would go? They replied, we would buy some good plaything for ourselves. I told them not to give it to their parents if they smoke or drink and they replied in affirmative.

When I sit down now, I think, I should have spent more time with them. My boss would have fired me if I did not reach the AGRO TECH conference where the round table discussion on the food processing industry was going on and make a press release.

However, as I write this, I feel a spiritual bug, a sense of contentment and happiness that comes from rare acts of kindness and selflessness. I guess, I made them happy. They would remember this. And I shoud for get this. ("Forget the good done by you to others," my master said). When I look up now, WoW....its been a great....One meaningful day after long...what a feeling

And yet, the poem gallops in my mind-

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Could i have changed this cats destiny?


Last week I turned up at the garage of my home,
A bunch of property hunters surrounded me,
They area was being surveyed,
The businessman in me, working overtime!

A busy road caught my attention behind,
Vehicles with people waiting to get home rushed by,
Greed, not speed was their need,
They lure of a few extra minutes at home!

While the client was busy on his phone,
I saw an old woman trying to cross the road by herself,
She seemed insecure, lonely and brisk,
An over speeding car passing by, just missed her,
I guess i too skipped a heartbeat seeing the sight!

Just then, a cat came near me,
I never liked cats and dogs,
It dint occur to me to take a second look,
The cat too looked insecure like the old lady,

However, my eyes fell upon it again,
The cat bent in fear, just like the way humans shiver,
A cyclist shooing it away, I did feel some pity for it,
But was taken back into my conversation with the property party!

We finished up our negotiations,
Did the handshake,
I Got on to my vehicle
And Turned the key to go,


I crossed the road to my side,
I raised the accelerator,
Only to apply the brakes again!

A pool of blood lay there,
This very sight hurt me,
I felt yuck and pity together,
I never liked cats!

The cat had been washed away by a speeding vehicle,
The post mortem would reap no fruit,
It was the lady and it was the cat,
One deadly road that connected them


There was nothing i could do that evening,
It was unpleasant and affective,
I could only hope and pray,
That the death was for good..

For a higher purpose or a new birth,
For a new meaning and new lease,
The only thing still bothering me is...
Could i have changed the cats destiny?

As an eternal optimist my heart would say,
"Thank God for the lesson that lay"

The cats departure infused love and care,
In my bossom that lay there bare,
At once i knew the purpose God showed me the sight!
How little is life, You never know when the last second is due!